Look, I'm a gentlemen and a good guy. I am healthy, humorous and giving. I have been in Texas just over 4. 5 years. This has been, beyond a doubt, the best time of my life. Time moves on and things change. I have. I assume you have as well. . . which is why you're on this site. I was just about to leave the country for a few years and that fell through. . . so it looks like I'm supposed to stay. I want a lot in a relationship and will put my all into it. Let's start with coffee or lunch and go from there. That is about as easy as it gets. . . no pressure - just conversation.