I enjoy working outdoors. Watching a movie. eating out. My kids (2 girls, husbands, one grandson) are a big part of my life, they live close and also are my friends. My Mom and Brother and wife are close and that is our close knit family. I own myhome and have worked 33 years at my job and could retire if I had a good reason. I have a dog that hates men because she was abused as a pup. . . if you are a good man you can win her over. I need a friend to talk will and a hug- widowed at age 44 way too young, lots of memories in the house of him but you would never be competing with him, he was a good man but he is gone, been gone 91/2 years. Haven't dated and the whole thing scares me.