I am a very conservative Christian looking for the same. I enjoy reading, writing, hiking, shopping for bargains and antiques, watching movies, eating out, cooking, playing with my dog, and being with family and good friends. I don't go to bars or clubs and don't believe I'm missing out on anything in those places. What is essential is invisible to the eye. Give me the simple life! I am nospinjo at the yellow smiley face.