I'm going to make this short and sweet; not even sure this online thing is for me but trying to keep an open mind. . . . . . . I have marked the one-year anniversary of being out of a long-term relationship and thinking of pursuing a relationship that does not include other males, females, or animals (yes I know there are some freaks out there!!) So not interested in any down low activity. I am a looking for someone who knows the true essence indulging (mind body & spirit) . Must be spontaneous but not stupid. Must be open to having a relationship with someone who I can truly call a friend (I am very selective with who I call friends) . . . if we can't kick it like friends and be who we are then it probably won't go very far. I'm very down to earth so you got to love me with the lipstick & heels on and off. At this point of my life I have no time or patience for playing games so if you don't know what it is you want or need then my advice to you now is. . . . spend some time with yourself and figure it out. I am 35 yrs old Afro Canadian (American?? you can pick the label) of Caribbean decent. About 5ƍ" of average build (some call it a few extra pounds I call it being a woman) . I have one child who belongs to me and therefore not looking for a father but must understand the responsibilities that go with that. On the other hand I am not necessarily looking for someone who has too many other commitments either. I know it sounds a little selfish but yeah this is where I am. I have so many loves that I can't name them all but the most important is I love to laugh so a sense of humor is a must.