I am 40 years old, 5'8ft tall with a average build. I have average light black hair. I never smoke and occasionally drink (never beer) . I married but divorced few years ago and do not have any children. I am as real as they come (not a player here for games, casual sex or similar) . I am here looking for a serious relationship. But am happy to be friends first. I am patient, understanding, gentle, sincere, honest, loving, trustworthy, respectful, down to earth and has a good sense of humour. I do not take life too seriously, unless the situation ask for it. I accept people for who they are and do not try to change them. It is who a person is that makes them worth knowing, not who you want them to be. I am also a bit shy. I love quiet nights at home, not so quiet nights at home, cooking, reading, listening to music, cuddling up on the couch (or in bed) with that special someone, going for walks, picnics, visiting different and exciting places, candlelit dinners, relaxing, being outdoors, generally just doing anything with that someone special is what I like to do. I am definitely not a cheater or a liar, cant stand those people.