Hello LadiesI AM LOOKING FOR TRUE LOVEThis is going to be a rather long message because am here for a long haul till I find a wife, mother and a life partner. So, am not in a hurry to get itched tomorrow. Having said that, what I am looking for in the North Pole may be under my nose in Ontario. So, who knows what might happen within a day or two, or shall I say, a year or ten. Only the creator knows what we mortals don't. So, WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?The bible's definition of love goes thus:Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. - 1 Corinthians 13:4 (New American Standard Bible)The above definition reminds me of the Ten Commandments because it is pretty comprehensive to me. If this is the case, it seems to me that we cannot actually give reasons as to why we love someone, but to simply love him or her because we love him or her. This sounds rather simplistic to me, but it also sounds complex. Why? Because the end product of true love seems to be without reason! In other words, Loving someone doesn't need a reason. If you can explain why you love someone, its not called "Love". . . its called "Like"Oops! Did I say that? Of course, I did! It's not a slip of tongue. We mortals expand on the Biblical definition of love in various ways. For example, my personal experience as a teenager includes the following: Love is a slow kiss goodnight, because it's an anticipation. Love is flirting outrageously and still remembering that the person at your side is not obligated to do anything; it's respect. Love is an imperfection in your self not bothering you; it's acceptance. Love is passing up an opportunity because the time isn't right yet; it's patience. Love is a back massage that starts above the hairline and ends around the insoles; it's exploration. Love doesn't have to say, "let's make love, " because you know what the other person wants; it understands. Love is being given an honest chance to say no when you thought you were committed; it's consideration. Love is both of you remembering protection; it's responsibility. Love is saying the perfect phrase to make a solemn embrace dissolve into giggles; it's humor. Love is being told "stop and I'll kill you. " It's desire. Love is reviewing the damage to your living room and realizing personal effects are strewn in a clockwise pattern from the front door to the bedroom; it's abandonment. Love is seeing what your love really looks like for the first time; it's truth. Love is knowing what time it is and not caring; it's joy. Love is the arms around you tightening their embrace; it's ecstasy. Love is seeing a new side of a person you thought you knew; it's renewal. Love is telling a person if you have to leave, you will let them sleep, and being told they would rather be woken; it's tenderness. Love is waking up to find the subject of the dream you were having asleep on your shoulder; it's where fantasy meets reality. Love is being there to wake your lover slowly; it's sensuousness. Love belatedly knows why you bothered to buy a king-sized bed three years ago; it's practicality. Love is two people only taking up a third of a king-sized bed; it's closeness. Love knows you gave the extra set of keys to your apartment to the right person; its trust. Love is saying good-bye and knowing you will be back by mutual consent, its faith. Love is stretching your arms and discovering the real meaning of the word "sore" it's a lesson in human frailty. Love is opening your medicine cabinet and finding your tube of toothpaste turned into a pretzel; it's adaptation. Love is sitting at the window, looking out and remembering who you were with the night before; it's reflection. Love is hearing the weather forecast for a winter storm and wishing you could spend it in bed with your lover; it's loneliness. Love is stories that will never be told; it's personal. Need I say more? DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE IN TRUE LOVE?If you truly believe in real love like me, then we will surely find it. Oh gosh; I've not really said anything about me, but about love. Why? Because it is not my physical self that matters even though am good looking, sexy and desirable. The reality of a good relationship is simply the true existence of love in both parties otherwise it's pointless. This is the root of over 50% divorce rate; one-sided relationship. I am open to further discussion and I will gladly send you my photo just to satisfy your curiosity as to "who is this person scenario"?. It is likely that I may add to this message, but for now I will sub-conclude by saying to you precious ladies that "Someday someone might come into your life and love you the way you've always wanted. If your someday was yesterday, learn. If your someday is tomorrow, hope. If your someday is today, cherish". Many thanks for reading the first chapter.