The most important aspect in a relationship is to have Jesus at the center. All things we do shall honor Him first. Communication is essential to a great relationship. I believe in being honest and open as time permits. Praying together seems to be very helpful in any moment. Without Jesus, not much will be resolved. I believe that the name over the door is not as important as the individual's true faith shown and lived in word and action with Biblical backing. All truth comes from His word.