I consider myself to be very laid back, easy to talk to, motivated, determined, dependable, a family man and teachable. I have a genuine concern for others and their welfare, whether male or female. I am currently employed as a Commerical Banker butam involved also in ministry at my church. I am looking for someone who can hold their own with or without me but understands the importance of a man in her life. Some who is beautiful and intelligent but not self-centered or conceited. But most of all someone who is "virtuous" or strong and can make it happen when she needs to. She doesn't have to be perfect but must seek to better herself and those around her. I hope this wasn't too long. Hope to hear from you. What I'd like to do on a first date. . . On the first date something simple would suffice where we could really have a good conversation and get to know each other. My past relationships have taught me. . . Past relationships have taught me to stay in tune with God and follow His direction. I have also learned a lot about myself and how I react to certain situations. One final thing I'd like to mention. . . I hope to meet others and pray that all is well with whoever is reading thisPlease know that you will never find true fulfillment on this site or in anything else but a relationship with the one who created you.