I'll tell you now I'm a big girl. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I see lots of big girls with hubbies here in Arkansas, so why not a feller for myself that will love me as I am. I'm definitely not a Suzie-Homemaker, but cleaning and cooking are necessary evils. I'm the sort that can't go go go all the time. I need some downtime to rest and relax - this doesn't mean I'm lazy. I'm looking for friendship first, and I prefer courtship to dating. I send out a 'Hi' icebreaker to all my new matches. I'd prefer if you're not interested in me to just close the match. Thank you.