I am really much more interested in learning all about my "perfect match" than I am in talking about myself, but I know this is how I introduce myself. I will try and describe what I feel I bring to a relationship and what I am looking for in a match. Please bear with me for having to use the word/letter "I" entirely too often. Firstly, I am not looking for someone to take care of me or to "complete me". I am very solid, stable and independent. I have always been employed (for many years at my current employer) and paid my own way. I am not looking to rescue or "complete" anyone. I am looking to share my life with a healthy (and special) person in a healthy relationship. About me, my core attribute is my strong and consistent character and integrity. I am strictly monogamous and very loyal. I am trustworthy and I believe that trustworthiness defines our character. For me, mutual trust and respect is a powerful aphrodisiac. . . ..