Believe it or not . . . I am NOT looking for the perfect man - But I am available for the man who is perfect for me. :) ) If you have a sweetness about you and if your relationship with the Lord is growing and energetic and He has built His character into you, if you are happy with yourself and if you can laugh at the silly things you do or giggle at the interesting situations you find yourself in, if you are willing to open yourself up to someone else who can notice your great qualities and humble enough to share your weak ones . . . then I would be thrilled to help cultivate a relationship with you where we could encourage each other to grow both as individuals and as a couple. Prayer would be a big part of that. I would love a man to challenge me in the things of the Lord and who can enable an environment for growth.
I would like to have ministry be a part of our life style. I would hope that he is open and available to what God would have us to do. Not just do it for the sake of doing something, but someone who really has a heart to follow the Lord and who earnestly seeks His direction. On a more personality type level:
I would be attracted to you if you have a captivating smile and if you exercise it often. I would LOVE it if you are people person and can easily communicate. I would LOVE your playful silly side more than the "usual" person. . . and I'm hoping you think it's an absolute adorable quality in someone else. I would love your contagious sense of humor - especially when you catch me off guard. That's awesome. :) ) I would find you absolutely gorgeous when you are praising the Lord and when you look to Him for direction. I would love to learn what you are passionate about. Has the Lord given you a dream or desire? I find that to be very attractive. Do what He has placed on your heart and do it with all of your might! :) ) ) You GO!!!!
I would hope that you would like to try different things for leisure activities, such as: volleyball, ANYTHING that has to do with water, tennis, racquetball, to reading together, campfires, shopping, visiting friends, playing catch, etc. Tell me that you are a romantic guy . . . mmmmm . . . cuz, oh! That is a definite plus - spontaneity and creativity add to that. Bring it on!! B r I n g I t o n!!! :) ) I am naturally a curious person so I would greatly appreciate having conversations about what and how you think about various topics. I would be honored when you feel comfortable enough to share your thoughts with me. . . good, bad, or indifferent. Do you care about the day to day activities and can you help form a vision for the future? Then let's work on making a comfortable environment where we aren't afraid to lay things on the table. I appreciate being upfront - it's not always easy - but it is always appreciated.
So I ask you. . . . Am I asking too much?? Just know that I also expect to grow with my man - as I would like to offer those things to him as well . . . And that, my friend, we do by experiencing life together. :) If you are someone who enjoys personal growth and can help cultivate that in others - then you would be exactly my kind of man. Is that you??? Are you there??? Does anybody hear me?!?! ; ) Enough of this hide and seek game already!!! : ) (There is really no good place to say this . . . . but it is my desire to meet someone who has never been married. I understand that there are many reasons for broken relationships and I am not trying to condemn anyone at all . . . it is just my personal desire. Thank you for your understanding. . . and may you be blessed. )