A little about me. . . I'm fun loving, but I am serious about life. I am a leader, and I like to get things done and then move on to the next adventure. I do a lot of thinking. I ask lots of questions and I believe there is always more than one side to a story. I will often play "devil's advocate", just to find the other side (s) . I am strong willed and sometimes quick tempered. But I'm told that I have good people skills. I tend to keep a group together. Looking at different sides help me to do that. Money is not everything, but I like to have it and I try to spend it wisely. I'm frugal not cheap! I'm very detail oriented. And to me; the small things do matter. I'm only a perfectionist sometimes. That is due more to my occupation, than my nature. Ok, it's mostly my nature, but I believe in organized clutter. I'm not soft spoken or very touchy feely. I am compassionate and I do like to cuddle. I usually keep quiet, preferring to let others speak first. That I can try to make an "informed contribution". I am loyal, caring, dependable, honest and trustworthy. I thrive on challenges, but I don't want too much of a challenge in my personal relationships. I'd prefer to climb a mountain than to fight with my friend.
What are you looking for in a partner?I believe the man for me is Holy Spirit filled and has good leadership qualities. He is assertive, not aggressive. Gentle, but not timid. Informed on a wide array of subjects, especially God's word as written in the Holy Bible, but that is not all that he talks about. I'm looking for a mentor/team "leader", not a boss. He should enjoy many types of music, like to dance and is very health conscience. He should be able to debate the facts and not shy away from confrontation, but be open to alternate suggestions. My mate should be working, financially stable or making good progress to get there. He should also be caring, loyal, dependable, honest and trustworthy. Ideally, he would not have very young children, as my job and church activities are often very time consuming. Plus I am looking forward to "an empty nest" in the not too distant future! I look forward to the joy of being equally yoked and serving God according to His will and desires for us. But as in all things; in God's time. I'd just like to add. . . I love to dance and sing. Notice that neither of these is my day job. I enjoy reading, travel, action, sci-fi & horror films. I don't watch much TV, but I like programs like CSI, 24 and Dancing with the Stars. I will watch some football, but I don't really follow the sport. I enjoy cooking and lately I've modified my lifestyle to incorporate healthier choices. Most of us do need to loose weight and get fit, right? I am really interested in meeting someone who is very health conscience. Trying to "Cook Light", I can't pass up a good recipe or cookbook. I always anticipate the monthly church potluck dinner. I like being with my natural and church family and friends. While I am very active in the church and with family and friends, I really cherish my alone (not lonely) time. I like animals in general. The usual cast of dogs, cats, birds etc. No snakes please. I'm in touch with my masculine side and I'd like a man that is in touch with his. I want solutions to the problem. Don't get me wrong, I will cry at sad movies, and boo-hoo like crazy when I hear certain songs. That's why I don't watch them, and on rare occassions, I do want someone to "just listen"! I don't like to shop much and I'm mostly into comfortable clothing