Respect is earned and so is trust, But love is real and can not be faked what god puts together is always real and true. I am not looking for just a christian because I am not a political one. I am looking for a soul mate that God has for me and I love romance and whispers and love notes. . im done with scribbles of paper. . lol. . . I have met christian's and at least I am on the right path but I am not going to be like every other christian I met who went for a woman because she went to the same church or she was a christian, I want the real thing, the spark when I look in her eyes or I think about her I get chills and it is like the fall season feeling. . I am content and happy and inlove with everything around me, if I cant have that. . . I don't want any of it.