I categorized what a successful marriage means to me in 3 areas:
1) Wife Characteristics Desired: You :)
2) Husband Characteristics: Me :)
3) Heart to Heart Snap Shot of Romance You :) & Me :)
Wife Characteristics Desired: You :)
I am looking for a wife that loves the Lord Jesus Christ and wants to enjoy all the adventure life has to offer in a bonded oneness. She has a hunger and desire to know Christ daily and is committed to a life long marriage covenant for good or for worse. We can laugh and cry together in good & bad times. She is a friend that communicates without getting angry but is willing to debate issues. She can share her deepest most innermost emotional needs in a gentle way with her husband and not feel ashamed. She desires to be cherished by her husband as a sweet fragrant rose and can love her husband unreservedly and expect her husband to love, enjoy, and satisfy his wife completely, body, soul and spirit. She respects her husband and does not tear down but builds up. She is committed to family values as ordained by God. She is fun to be with and is able on the spur of the moment take a weekend drive somewhere. She is a unique person that realizes that we all make mistakes and can practice forgiving and can grow in the knowledge of Christ.
She is a God-Fearing Help mate, Spiritual, Loving, Patient, Keeps no Record of Wrongs, Hopelessly Romantic, Genuine, Sensitive, Considerate, Caring, Trustworthy, Energetic, Positive, Attractive, Athletic, Physically fit & Active, Creative, Artistic, Educated, Intelligent, Eclectic, Fun person, Adventurous, Enjoys simple things in life, Honest, Loyal, Sweet, Lighthearted, Easy to get along with, Happy, Determined, Devoted, Kind and is not a Jealous person, Prays for Family Members, has Fun Playing Games with each other. Note: I am not saying that a wife has to have all of these characteristics since no one is perfect, but they are desired. *** I Would Love to Meet YOU!!! ***
Husband Characteristics: Me :)I am a mature, dependable, and confident man that has the energy to do the things that I was doing at 18. I am a kid at heart. There is not a dull moment with me. I amuse myself sometimes. I am not saying that I do not need some time alone, because I do need to get refreshed. I am amazed at the capacity the Lord has given me to enjoy the simple things in life. That is a gift most people take for granted. I am also stunned at the various abilities and interests that the Lord grafted into my personality when He created me. There is no boasting in me. He gave me talent for mechanical, electronics, computers, fix most things, build things, work on cars, enjoy all types of music, create melodies on the piano, entertained with outdoor activities, walks, hikes, interact with people, like to debate current issues, love conversations and exchanging ideas, not willing to argue, love to tease, talk big but really joking , not too serious, easy going, mostly smiling, funny, introvert and an extrovert, love animals, flowers, gardens, museums, arts, and is a curious person wondering how things tick, and stand at awe at Gods creation.
I am committed to loving my wife as Christ loved the church. This means that I must have a sacrificial love for her and not to love her because of what she does for me. It is based on what I sacrifice for her that causes her to respond & love me for a lasting marriage. As a husband I am responsible to helping resolve hurtful issues that may have happened in the past or present, to encourage & nourish her as the leader of our family. I am to treat my wife like a queen, a precious jewel, unlike any other woman in the entire world whose eyes are only on you.
Heart to Heart Snap Shot of Romance: You :) & Me :)Romance can be a new discovery every day, to me it is longing for two hearts to become one, for the two of us to look into each others eyes and become intoxicated with passion and excitement of love. For us to express the deepest desires from soul to soul with expressions of love; with words, sight, touch, smell, hearing, inner emotions, and our spirit that is beyond all human inventions. The gift of a man and women loving each other is a creation of love from our God. For two to enjoy each other in love is a blessing and enjoyment God designed for marriage.
I love to send love notes or call saying I love you during the day, stopping off to get flowers for my special one on the way home from work, looking into her eyes and saying I love you, telling her I can't wait to come home to hug you and kiss you and I am missing you my darling in between my work. To tell her that I need her and that she is my completeness in life. To be able to enjoy hearing her voice over the phone, to hear her sweet gestures and giggles, to know that she has her love entirely on me. I love to cuddle and take walks and hold hands and then relax and snuggle next to a fire place on a cold windy winter day watching the snow trickle down. I love having a candlelight dinner preparing the way for the evening of love making and knowing fully that loving passionately begins at the start of the day with the short love notes and the building up of the desire and passion for each other throughout the day. To have a picnic in the park, to walk hand in hand along a path near a clear flowing stream feeling the warmth of the breeze, to laugh at each others jokes, to tickle and wrestle in the grass secluded alone with each other, to walk along the sea shore filling the warmth of the sun and kicking the waves and hands swinging back and forth joyfully forgetting the troubles of yesterday and enjoying the moments of bliss together while watching a colorful sunset.