I have been divorced since Nov of '08 and separated since Aug of '06. I left my husband when he told me he had an affair with 2 gay men. I have found out a lot more since then. I have 2 children, ages 19 & 13. My daughter, 19, is attending Iowa and we have a "strained" relationship because of the divorce. My son, 13, lives with me part-time and he is AWESOME. He plays football, wrestling and now track. He is getting just about straight "A's" and is a great student in school. I am seeking Godly man with the same values and morals as me. And last but not least, Christ must be in the center of any relationship that I have.