Ends up I'm still kind of trying to figure me out, but one thing is for sure. Moving to Memphis was probably one of the best things I ever did for myself. I moved here for a job and am 11 hours away from home which is about 10 hours further than anyone else in my family. I'm just me. I have a great sense of humor and ultimately the person I date should too. I do stupid stuff and laugh at myself all the time so it helps when the person I'm with can laugh too. You will NOT need to worry about being amused when you're with me. That's for damn sure! My family and friends are the most important things in my life. I've often been told I'm too nice--I will do anything for anyone and not expect a whole lot in return. It's just the way I am. I guess it's those rural Iowa values or something. The person I end up with should value their family and friends and be able to get along with mine. . . which is not hard. Me and my match should have some of the same interests. . . but not ALL. In a relationship you should still be able to do your own thing. I'm one of the most laid back, low maintenance girls you'll ever meet. I don't get mad when the person I'm seeing has a "boys night. " I won't pick stupid fights and I'll watch football with you. What more do you want from me? Gosh. (I'm also a big fan of sarcasm) . I LOVE sports, playing them or watching them. . . my job revolves around sports and I wouldn't have it any other way.