I believe that the most important life skill that I've learned is resiliency. We all have to face adversity in life, but the key is how well we recover. Having an attitude of gratitude and focusing on the resources that I have help me to see thewater that is in the glass. I'm looking for a man who can look on the bright side, roll with the punches and end up on his feet. Someone who shares my faith in God and my sense of adventure. He should be someone who has a wide variety of interests and doesn't fit into any particular category, unless it's that of a "nice guy. " If he's as comfortable in hiking boots and jeans as he is in a suit and tie, can get lost without getting angry, laugh at himself, and is handy with power tools, he might just be my Boaz.