Here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to be honest and throw up (eww, he said throw up) all the deal-breakers right up front. I know that's horribly unromantic of me, but you do want a guy who's going to be honest, don't you? |||| 1>, I am born again and conservative. Jesus is the only way by which men can be saved, and the meaning of texts do not change with the times. However, I am no fan of Ron Paul, as he is massively ignorant about the nature of Islam. |||| 2> I'm a creative, artistic type, with the moods to match. Yes, I can create poetry, music, short stories, ads, skits, and other stuff, but I can be morbid, grim, or melancholic. Call me permanently emo. |||| 3> I am into heavy music -- 95% of Christian, with 5% of it not anti-God. And by heavy, I mean doom metal, thrash, gothic metal, death metal (some), hardcore, metalcore, and goth. I'm into lots of other music too, but these are the deal-breakers. |||| 4> Although I've learned to tolerate parties, I'm just not the social butterfly. I can't remember all your friends' names, and I'm not quick on my feet. That's more than most of you can handle, I know, but for the brave souls who are left, here's what else you get with this package: a thoroughly romantic, passionate, pure soul, who is kind, honest, giving, empathetic, sharing, loyal, and a good listener. I also have not an arrogant bone in my body. I'm committed to the Lord, and have been since I was sixteen. I also have a stable job and I actually enjoy it about 80% of the time. What do I do? I write online help. I'm good with computers, too, but you'd better use a Mac! Hehe. I'm moderately good with cars. I can do a little bit of cooking, too. I have an offbeat but active sense of humor. I own two cats and I'm alright with dogs. Spiritually, I'm an encourager, an intercessor, and enjoy giving/creating anonymously. Think of the the great cathedrals and their anonymous architechts! |||| What appeals to me in a woman: saved, knows how to fight fair (not emotionally abusive), conservative, artsy, musical, Southern, redhead or brunette (dyed is fine), thick or slender, intelligent, into heavy music, passionate, and mostly drama-free. I recognize that I have a need for being encouraged and understood (being an artist can be lonely), so those traits would work well. God bless!