I'm not free, nor am I cheap. But to the right person I am willing to make myself available. So this is what I'm offering:
A gently used heart. I know what its like to be hurt and to hurt people. I take no pride in hurting anyone, but to say that I've never hurt anyone would be a lie. The same principle applies to me being hurt. Like most people I've had my heart ripped out and broken more times than I wish, but always bounce back a lot more wiser for the experience. In a relationship I believe that nothing can reach its full potential unless its built on a proper foundation. For me this means a committed and submitted relationship to Christ. I am by no means a Bible-beater, but my walk with God is a very serious part of my life. So without a deep relationship with God in your life, I know you aren't the right person for me.
With my trust in God, I'm not afraid to open up and trust other people who I wish to get close to. I know that unless I'm willing to make myself vulnerable and open my heart to someone, there is little chance of us building up much trust in each other. I'm not afraid to make the first steps in doing this. For me trust is even more important than communicating simply because without trust we can't feel safe enough to openly express our thoughts and feelings properly. But I need to be able to communicate with you. Knowing what your thoughts and feelings are extremely important to me. I need to know them in order to help you through rough patches on the road, or to just make sure that I'm expressing my thoughts and feelings in a way that you can understand 100% of what I'm saying; and if you don't then I need to adapt and be flexible enough to know how to do that.
To the right person I also give away as many laughs as they can handle. Anyone who knows me, knows I'm a complete goofball. I love to laugh, play jokes, and have fun. So if you are humor impaired, I would probably drive you totally insane!!! With trust and humor, one of the easiest way to express feelings or love and attraction to the right person is romance. So many people say romance is dead, but I'm not one of them. I think its so much fun to do little things to surprise that one special person and put a smile on her face. From cooking a nice supper for her, to getting a nice hot bath ready (if appropriate!!! ) Flowers never need to be left for birthdays, anniversaries, or special occasions, who says I have to wait for a special occasion to send flowers? What about foot or hand massages??? There are sooooo many different ways to for a guy to be romantic, and the best part about them is that they are all fun when you really care about her and want to make her the happiest woman alive!!!
But I guess the only thing I really have to offer the right lady is nothing but me and my two awesome boys. I ask for nothing but to be treated with respect and integrity. I'm not a complicated person, but I'm not a simpleton at the same time; I'm not a genius, but I'm not stupid; I'm not the best looking person, but I don't crack cameras either. I guess I just consider myself to be an average guy, with a big heart, and sense of humor. I've been single for almost 7 years now, so if there is anyone out there who is interested, don't be to shy to write to me. But please realize that I've stayed single for seven years not because I couldn't find anyone, but because I won't settle for the wrong person. I have met some really incredible and awesome people, but that doesn't mean they were the right ones, it would be very easy to settle for someone who is awesome, but still not the 'One'.
So please understand, that just because something you are looking for doesn't work out with someone you really like, its not because of you, or perhaps them. Its just because there is someone out there that God has in store for you. Stay blessed, Blair