I am a plus-size swf almost 50 living with all my children in my daughter's home. I don't smoke or drink. I am looking for someone to put the spice back into my life, without getting burned. Slowly, this Shirley is putting her life where she want itto be. I have lived in the area for 5 years. I am looking for my swan song, life long, long term permanent relationship that will be the passion of my life. I am looking for a man that will put God first in his life. Someone gentle, kind and true.