I am a happy well adjusted 45 year old woman who writes. I have a great sense of humor and no money worries. I have no desire to disrupt my current living situtation and budget by adding a person to my list of bills. So unless you are self supporting, please do not contact me. I do not wish to move anyone into my Apt. and have no desire to unroot myself at this time. I am looking for a good Christian man not just a man using this site to find helpless christian women. I am not and never will be helpless. I am considerate, loving, fun, honest and direct. I will always tell you what I think, sorry if you don't want to know. I have strong opinions and beliefs and I am stubborn also. I have several children grown and married and grand children and a child still at home. I am not new to these sites and I don't like liars. I am a pretty woman and look even better when I want to or need to. I usually dress casually but clean up pretty good. I like 50's 60's & 70's music and some good old gospel music. I don't listen to modern christian music. I go to church where they give an old fashioned service with a politally incorrect minister who doesn't pull any punches and I like it. I would rather live my life believing there is God and die to find out there isn't Rather than live my life as if there isn't God to die and find out there is. As far as I am concerned there is no excuse for not doing the right thing or for doing the wrong thing. Everything I do have a purpose and a reason and I usually don't feel the need to explain myself. If you think I say or do things that are mean or hurtful you will never know me or trust me so please talk to someone else and save us both alot of grief. I am not looking for an ungodly relationship. I am sure enough fo myself to wait as long as I have to to find the kind of man I can respect and love and honor. I am not perfect and I don't expect anyone to be. I do expect a man to act like a man and put as much of himself into a relationship as I do and allow me to be a lady and not expect me to act like a man. what I have written here are the views and feeling and standards I live by, they may seem too strict for you, but my road isn't easy and I wouldn't have it any other way. My road to God will never be easy but hopefully when it is at an end it will have been good enough to assure my place in Heaven.