Single Christian Network

I just got out of the Airforce, and I am searching for a real relationship unlike my friends. This is the first time I have done this, but I am tired of trying to meet a girl at a bar atmosphere where everyone is drunk and smoking, and acting a fool when I am out with my friends as the driver. I am not very good at coming up to a girl and asking her out because I see all sorts of guys trying to pick up women and they just dismiss them like idiots, and I just wouldn't want them to think that I am another guy hitting on her, so I wanted to try and actually meet someone first and converse with them.