I got married and became a Pastor at about the same time (2 1/2 yrs ago) . I didn't really know how to be a Pastor and she didn't really know how to be a Pastor's wife. We learned together. . . . with a lot of help from God. She passed away unexpectedly in Sept. God is my fortress and a very present help. His grace is sufficient, but sometimes I still struggle. It takes a very special person to be a Pastor's wife. I pray God will send the right one. I am not a member so you'll have to leave mail. . . ..