A little about me first. I live near Charlotte, am a widower and have a six year old son at home. I have a six figure income and financial security. I own three horses, two big German Sheppards and numerous barn cats. I love to have fun, go out to eat and ride. I am very neat and can cook, do laundry and bath daily! I would love to have more children but is not a deal breaker if you don't.
The Lord is central in my life. I believe in the bible as God?s sacred word. Therefore, I believe that the man is the head of the house and the family, period. (Here comes the hard part for most ladies) When the bible says for women to submit to her husband it does not say submit part way or three quarters. Its says "in everything" and it says it three times (1Pe 3:1-7, Eph 5:22/24 and Col 3:18) In Genesis 3:16 its says ?Yet your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you. " So, I believe a wife must submit completely to her husband. I understand that some ladies do not like this. I also know that when the bible tells us men more than once to love our wives as Christ loves His church, (1 Pe 3:7 and Eph 5:25/28 to name a couple) and I do not interpret that to mean only love her on her good days. It means love her and respect her completely at all times. Being head of the house and in control does NOT mean me getting waited on hand-and-foot or getting My way all the time. It means it is My responsibility to ensure the financial, emotional and spiritual well being of those under My care. I understand that for a woman to offer her complete submission is the greatest gift of love and trust there is. I cannot for the life of me understand why men would abuse that. Bottom line, if you are looking for a Godly man to take control, I am your guy. I am very much a Dominant male and looking for a very submissive woman. I also want a wife with whom I can laugh with, be goofy, pray with, hold hands in church and just have fun. She will be My pride and joy and I will love her forever.