I am a hard working person with a lot of drive. I like helping others and often do this over taking care of myself (I'm learning though) . I tend to be serious and am a good listener and through experience and feeling share my life with my close friends.
I am very active and am looking for someone to share my life with. I am divorced, it feels like starting over, but you learn from your past. This is a fact and I want to move forward as I know what I want. I am financially independent and hope to find someone that is the same. I wrote a poem about what I think I am looking for:Why we desire to be loved?
There is an innate nature we as humans shareTo be tolerated, accepted, to be loved by othersWe give up our lives with monumental accomplishments for this As if spawning salmon, give their lives into blissBeing with another provides support and the courage To walk as a team dealing with life's meandering tests For many lack the self worth to go it alone So they seek comfort in others, like cows in a herd
The reality is thus, we desire to be loved for we need this For it allows one to become vulnerable so as to grow from oneself As the gift of love is a gift of a mirror The other as one to show us who we do not want to appearLove instills the caring of others with oneselfFor we know we must travel through our inner forest And be ok accepting the truth of who we are As it is far easier to do in love and feel than without