Am I foolish for looking for the perfect woman to spend the rest of my life with? I think not. Good hearted, Christian. I still have many good years left and hope to spend them with someone who will be my best friend, companion, lover . . . everything. I am a true romantic and when I look into her eyes, there doesn't have to be anyone else in the world. Does this make any sense? If you write to me, please let me know you are serious, because I am. I live in San Antonio, Texas. I have been divorced 7 years after a long disappointing marriage and have 4 children (don't live with me). I love the sea, the outdoors, history, anything with chocolate chips, and am a fairly good cook . . . and no, I don't mind helping out in the kitchen. With a special woman. I'd rather be with her than anyone else. .