An optimist is what most people consider me. I know that when Christ is considered the Center of one's life, life is better. Family relationships are important to me. Taking care of each other always ends up more rewarding then "stuff". I would like to find a man who would consider his role of "spiritual head of the household" as a priority. He has to be kind and loving-- mushy, drippy is optional-- but considerate and respectful. I know from the past that mean people are too selfish and I 'm not, so it isn't a good mix. Because laughter creates such fun, it would be great if he liked to laugh -- and liked to make me laugh.