Well for starters let me say that I am currently in the middle of a divorce and its inevitable. I've been with the same woman for about 22 years and this is going to be very tough on me and I thought I would try to ease the pain by maybe just talking to someone who might have something in common with me. I work full time and make a decent wage with good benefits. I have three teenage daughters who are living with me and hopefully that will stay like that until my middle child gradutates next may and we sell the house and then who knows what. I do plan on quitting the smoking thing and would like to find someone who also has intentions of quitting. As far as drinking, I don't drink to get drunk nor will I ever. I'm in good health and would also like to jog or work out with someone. My wife never liked church so we hardly ever went even though I was raised catholic. The past couple of weeks I have gone to a couple different churches in my area by myself and still looking to find the right one. Enjoy music 50's thru 80's, old school dance, jazz, blues, some classical and ballroom. Country is OK just not at the top of my list. Love to do anything outdoors as long as it's not all work. Like to play most sports and enjoy watching football and baseball but don't tie up my entire day to it. Looking to just exchange emails with someone for right now. What I can say about me is that I'm not the biggest, strongest, smartest, richest, best looking man in the neighborhood but I do OK and I've got an unselfish heart that's still pretty big (I hope) . I do not lie or deceive and would expect the same from you. I only speak truths and do not say things just to say them. I do like to laugh and have a sence of humor and try to remain as positive a person as I can.