My ideal match is funny, quick witted & loving. I want someone who is not juvenile, rude, a liar (omission is a lie by the way) and can put more than one sentence together!My ideal is someone who put me there with the other number 1's in his life. I have children and love them fiercely but they don't control my life either. My number system is everyone is equal and no one has a greater importance than the next one. EVERYONE is important who is in my life, I don't have a pecking order. If you do and you feel like that I will number 2 please don't contact me. I work hard and would like someone that does the same. I would really love a best friend out of all of this. . . having a best friend is awesome when trying to make new relationships. I can't wait to meet you!!!