I value honesty, openness, trustworthiness, integrity, an optimistic view of life and a fun sense of humor in all relationships. Ultimately I desire a relationship motivated by love and respect. The kind of man I could eventually love and respect would be one of spiritual and emotional maturity who is loved and respected by those who know him, especially children. One who is responsive to God and others. One who is sensitive to the Spirit's leading and obedient to follow. One who is comfortable in his own skin, knows who he is and is secure in who he is. . . because God is the source of his identity and confidence. One who is giving, generous and thoughtful toward others. One who embraces life and all the challenges, trials and personal growth that go with it with boldness and Godly submission. One who is a gentle and decisive leader. One with smile lines around his eyes.