I don't kiss on a first date as I am a traditionalist having a few old fashioned values. I am very interested in a feminine lady, but not a femi-nazi (big difference) . with no first date kiss, we can enjoy being just us without the pressures and anxieties of when and where that kiss will happen. should we have a second date or beyond, indicative of mutual interests in each other. . . . . then pucker up!! I run from prozac, paxil, and zoloft disasters, been there, done that, got the t-shirt, moved on with life after lots of heartache. I have two beautiful boys as I gave them biblical first names, and their middle names come from their english knighthood heritage. . . names with purpsoe and meaning. I also baptized them in our baptist church. much more to talk about as we get to know each other. oh yeah, I like romantic walks on ka'anapalli beach in maui, most islands in the caribbean, or destin, fl. , and great meal at home of in a nice resturant. my name is mike, talk with ya soon.