This is lengthy, but I think important so here goes. . .
I am a movie, music, & sports nut - Movies: from kids movies to horror, from romance to action - any and all are awesome. Some of my faves might be Dead Poets Society, The Crow, The Wizard of Oz, Die Hard, Labyrinth, Lord of the Rings, Benny and Joon, Renaissance Man, Robin Hood, Unforgiven, Tombstone, Memento, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, & any Johnny Depp, Morgan Freeman movie or Emma Thompson, Keira Knightley movie. Music: I have sang in bands for over 20 years - I love good old fashioned rock, modern rock, old country, new country, jazz, bluegrass, and even Christian rock. Music is a huge part of who I am. Some fave bands are Black Crowes, Bob Seger, Led Zeppelin, George Strait, Michelle Branch, Bonnie Raitt, Nickelback, Puddle of Mudd, Otis Redding, Marvin Gaye, Luther Vandross, Jonny Lang, BB King, 80's hair bands, and on and on; I missed a ton already.
Sports - I love em': baseball, football, basketball, tennis, olympics of any kind, NASCAR, etc. . . What I am looking for: Unselfishness, and a willingness to help others, even when it isn't always possible to help yourself. If you being you fills these qualities, then you are someone I could learn to love.
My typical day: Since no day of mine is 'typical', I guess I will put my wish list for a typical 'future' day. Anything with romance, candlelight, stars, great music, great chemistry, and only honesty. I have recently become much more spiritual and love good conversation about God, and how prayer has really changed my life recently. I believe in balance and too much of ANYTHING is bad, but God has brought me balance alot lately. Obviously not a 'holy roller', as my profile shows, but it is important to me to be the best I can be all around. My Wish List Includes: Just do whatever comes my way with the woman I love the most. I should say more I guess - better too much than not enough :) . Well this is not a direct answer to this question, but it is a good spot for my story I guess I believe in 100% honesty at all times, so here goes. I have been married for over 19 years and separated the past 3. 5 of them. My divorce will FINALLY be final in November of this year. I have just moved recently to Tennessee alone from Ohio to be with my parents, and I severely miss my 3 wonderful children. As mentioned above, I am trying to get a divorce for the 3rd time (same woman, same marriage - cannot believe I received an email thinking I was married three times!) , long story there, and although my education and background is in information technology, I began a new career as of August 10 working in retail for Office Depot. My life has taken many turns over the course of the past 3. 5 years, some bad, and some very bad, so I am attempting to begin anew in Tennessee. I am helping take care of my ailing father, and learning to accept my life and circumstance for what it is: a second chance to be happy. I have decided this 'second chance' would be best lived if shared with my true soulmate, and therefore I am on this site in an effort to find her. I have learned over the past few years that my faith and my will to succeed are still very strong, and I believe that my soulmate is out there, and we will find one another. I will travel anywhere to be with her as I will follow my heart to anywhere. Ok, corny enough? Probably, but there it is anyway.
My personality:Loving, caring, strong but sensitive, a man's man when I have to be and a loving partner always. Ok more in-depth. The low-down on me - I love children, sports, music, movies, and books. I love to write and sing most of all, oh and I love to fish as well, although I am just an amateur. In my new life, I want to be simple, working for what I need, and not just what I want. I am willing to make far less money in order to find far more happiness if that is what my true future holds. (An example of this is I have a PhD in Information Technology, but I currently work in retail as I just was not happy with my job of over 15 years, so I left even though the money was awesome) . I know how to love only one way; all in. I am a very passionate man about many things, and I know my soulmate will match that intensity while knowing how to just enjoy life through serious times and fun times. Bottom line here. . . Please do not play games. When I am in I am in, and I have always been the one getting hurt - I do not want another broken heart...