Single Christian Network


Christian Singles. Christian Dating. All Christian. All Single.

Next Profile
Male Profile



NICEGUY45Y


Location: San Marcos, Texas
Country: U.S.


send mail   send mail   send mail  

Return To Search  
Age: 52 Race: White
Church: Protestant-Christian   Education: Advanced Degree
Marital: Never Married   Smoker? NO   Occupation: Teaching (university)
Height: 5ft 7   Hair: Black   Eyes: Brown
Children living at home: 0    Body Type: Muscular
Seeking someone between ages: 30 and 45     
Asian turned 45 May 2001. Very well educated. Currently teach at a university. Never smoke. Never do drugs. Never get drunk. Never fool around. Work out often and am in great physical shape and health - supported by annual medical exams. Like to travel, and have travelled quite a bit - one ambition is to see as much of the world as possible in life. Fortunate to have the opportunity to acquire and experience extensive multicultural exposure. Speak several languages. Strive to be pure and perfect - but of course nobody is perfect. I pride myself in NOT being a willing slave of materialism (or terrorism). About the only thing I feel missing often times is to have someone that I can share good life with - someone that can mutually share and practice lifelong TRUE love with me. I would say that most females who got to appreciate and experience me enough are attracted to me, but it takes a lot more than just physical/personality attraction to forge lifelong togetherness. Perhaps the natural, everyday setting is too limiting; so I am trying out this I-thought-I-would-never-do-it thing of advertising myself in the public forum. MY HONEST DISCLOSURE (sorry if it sounds blunt): ================================================I am NOT interested in playing love game with anyone. If you are not truly sincere, or if your norms and values are way different than mine, please don't waste my time and energy, and yours too. I'm seeking someone that can mutually share and practice TRUE love with me for life. I'll share some of what I think TRUE love is or must have here. Love must be mutual - let's face it, it simply takes a lot of inter-person elements and cooperative effort (what many loosely refer to as chemistry?) for two things as complex as we humans are to harmoniously and happily coexist. Some important inter-person elements: mutual physical attraction (whether we like it or not), mutual patience, mutual understanding, mutual compromise (give and take, forgive and forget), mutual unselfishness (think us, not just oneself), mutual honesty (no intentional hiding of anything), mutual faithfullness, mutual caring (reciprocatively making each other feel good, striving to match or surpass what the other has shown/done in goodness), and mutual practical togetherness (cooperation in dealing with the vicissitudes of life). It will be foolish to think that all of the above can all be there at all times and under all circumstances, but when that cannot happen that's where mutual compromise becomes critical. Love is expressed in not just words, but words backed by concrete actions that reflect the words. Being a nice guy, I truly believe that there's absolutely no point in making either of our lives miserable - don't cheat me, don't cheat others, don't cheat yourself, and (above all) don't cheat Him (do fear Him, do fear His wrath). Yes, in case you start to wonder, implicit in what I said above is my belief that He is the rock, the pillar, the guiding light, the bonding glue, . . . , and the ultimate source for all the needed ingredients for TRUE love to take place. If you subscribe to much the same ideas and values, aged 30+ to 40 or so, and perhaps are like me waiting far too long to meet that matching one to come along in everyday setting, I'd like to explore the possibility with you. If you are somewhat younger and not afraid of age difference, you may also try. I wish you all the best, whether you are of my type or not, and thank you for taking the time to read my profile and this disclosure. ON THE LIGHTER SIDE (as serious as my pic may look) ===================================================Perhaps you wanna drop me a line to thank me for the little lecture on TRUE love eh . . . oops, that's known to be Canadianism . . . afterall, I am an educator and many of my students have liked how I tear apart and explain difficult concepts to them . . . but then the concept of TRUE love has not thus far arisen . . . well, well, take care y'all . . . oops, that would be kinda Texan . . . aarrrgggghhhhh! God bless . . . :)

Next Profile






Dating Forum Links Dating Sitemap
Resources | Add URL | Related Sites | SpyderMap
Web Portal | Related Articles Christian Singles Blog Dating Blog Twitter Christian Singles
christian singles christian dating