Just looking for a good, sincere man who will "get" me and treat me with respect and love. I have been widowed for 3. 5 yrs now, and it is kinda time to go on. I am a very spiritual person, but don't do organized religion, so if this is a problem, move on. I don't think you have to go to a building to praise, you can have an awesome relationship with Him, in your own manner.