I am a man devoted to Jesus Christ for 46 years, not perfect, but still trying. I am gently and soft with my horse and would be the same with my mate. You must give respect to get respect, give love to get love. Would you like fresh wild flowers every morning all spring, back rubs, thank yous. I require faithfulness, and that means if you say your are going to meet me at a certain time then be there, on the internet, bringing me lunch, whatever. If you can't do the simple things you won't be faithful in the larger things, sorry. I will serve you like I serve the lord, I would ask the same from you. I like snuggling on the couch and watching a movie, or around a campfire.