Enthusiastic, intelligent, witty, responsible, and engaging guy looking for an equal partner. My female friends say I am a "catch" for some lucky lady. I have a youthful, friendly, playful spirit and a quick wit that people are drawn to. I smile at almost everyone (why not!) . I am honest and don't play games (except tennis) . Tennis is where I "get in the zone"- it keeps me in great shape physically and mentally (endorphins negate stress) . I also enjoy sailing, snow skiing, traveling, college sports and being outdoors - especially near water. I want to learn to scuba dive. Music is an energizing force for me (my kids say the volume on my stereo is excessive!) . I am outgoing (you knew that, right) and get energized by interacting with people. I enjoy entertaining - for 12, 40 or just 2. I have great friends, but would like to find that "significant" one! I have brains of steel, but I can relate to guy who mows my lawn (oh, wait, that's me - no wonder that's so easy!) . I am an architect, and have a passion for design. I have the maturity to be a great "Dad", and to keep a household running smoothly, but I enjoy playing! I like to "hang" with my two teenage sons who are extraordinarily smart, charming and occasionally irritating! I have them every other week, which works well for all of us. I have a peaceful / considerate relationship with my ex. I come from a large, happy, loving family that is a lot fun to be around. I like to give/receive affection & have been told I'm a great husband/boyfriend by my ex-wife/former girlfriends. I am at peace with who I am, where I've been, and where I am headed. My spiritual journey has brought contentment to my life. While I am comfortable being single I look forward to meeting a lady with which to share an inspiring connection. She will be a lucky woman! I am romantic and passionate guy, who enjoys making the lady in my life know that she is special! Thanks for listening, I promise that I don't usually talk this much about myself!