I am looking for a man that has common sense and sensitivity. He must be financially secure and not have too much baggage from past relationships. After all everyone has some baggage. They are called memories. I am financially secure and am very secure in who I am. I do not want to mother anyone. I want a man that is secure in who he is. I am kind, loving, caring and responsible. I want to be with someone that I can trust taking my soul to heaven. Do not take that literally. I would like to move south eventually and it would be more fun doing it with a good friend and mate.