As they say. .
Go for the man of deeds and not for a man with words, for u will find rewarding happiness not with the man u love but the man who loves u more. I bet this is right. .
If u gonna commit to a person forever (marriage) U have to think if u are happy with him, it's hard to be stuck in that person knowing that u don't love him anymore, u are talking about ur happiness here.
No one's perfect in anyway, in any relationships ther's always loopholes, I just try to avoid confrontation, I have learned to ignore, the more u ignore the things that upsets u, the more u feel relaxed, petty things and issues must not be given a great deal, it is on how u perceived things that matters, if u stay cool ur life's cool, if u do worry all the time, u won't find peace within, just work on things that u enjoy, take a hobby or sometimes dont concentrate on just the relationship, learn to do things together if not separately, ive just learned that I should not lose identity, sometimes being tough gets u going