Low maintenance, with baggage in check - solid Christian woman is looking for a strong Christian man with a heart for others, and well-known for his service in the church community. If divorced, you absolutely must have great reason for divorcing and yet be able to speak well of your ex and with a decent relationship. I'm extremely family-oriented, and would love to find someone else who has not given up on the idea of having a family, even if it is a strong, blended one. I have one 16 yr-old son living at home and two others living outside the home. I want marriage for the same reason as most women, but also for the opportunity to see more growth and change in my own life. I'm extremely family-oriented and really cannot relocate at this time - and besides, I love the Bay area! Although I'll be 48 this month, I'm told I look much younger.