Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ, Shalom! This is my first time to try this and have joined in this site for few days. I gained some interested experience and would like to share with you all. I'm a Chinese girl from Hong Kong. I never think that I will try online dating. I made this decision when I was down I think. To be honest, I really enjoy my single life, enjoy everything that the LORD has given to me. I have a good family, have some closer friends, have a good relationship with GOD. I received much love from my family and friends, surely a great love from GOD as well. I have a good standard of life, enjoy travelling to anywhere of the world which I like, shop as I like/want. I love Hong Kong, haven't have a desire to immigrate anywhere out side of Hong Kong. Since I have read this in this site's forum that someone complained that some women/men(out side of US)looking for love here for her/his immigration perpose. I feel shame to hear that. The Bible said:"if one were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned. " (song of songs 8:7) if one use love for his/her unrighteous perpose, it would be utterly scorned. Back to my faith, I could say that I haven't a religion. instead, I'm a follower of my LORD YESHUA(JESUS). following HIM fully to the end is my whole desire. This is quite a different matter. if you know the difference and agree with me that you may draw near a bit to me. Regarding to marriage, I believed that GOD creat a definite helper for each one of us. He/she will be the only one. He/she is a helper rather than a partner. so I prepared myself to be a right helper suitable for my Adam, and keep praying this to GOD. The relationship I long for is as deeper as described in the book of "Song of songs". I would say" I'm my lover's and my lover is mine. "(song of songs 6:3a). Since I have chosen to follow our LORD YESHUA in my 18 yrs, I started to pray for my marriage, because I believed that a godly husband is given by the LORD. HE knows which one is perfertly good and right for me. GOD has HIS sense of humor, many years have passed, I haven't found my Adam yet, I think I'm going to lose my patience, faith and hope, this is why I be here, but, our LORD is a faithful GOD, He will fufill HIS promise that HE delight to. He reconfirmed my faith with HIS words, I read this in my daily Bible reading:"the LORD says'you will see neither wind nor rain, yet this valley will be filled with water, and you, . . . will drink'"(2king3:17 NIV). In my understanding, though I see neither sign nor shadow of my Adam, our LORD is forming him at somewhere I don't know. He will bring him to me at HIS perfect time. Dear Brother, if you are the faithul follower of our LORD YESHUA, make your heart firmly to love HIM and Shema(listen and obey) in your whole life, then you would be put in my consideration. Besides, you must be never married, not older than me over 3 yrs. BTW, I'm not going to upgrade my account, and maybe cancell my account within few days. While you read throughout my sharing and want to take some action, my suggestion, pls wait and pray, then let the Holy Spirit to lead you. Thank you very much for your kind attention.