Smile even when it hurts cuz when the wind picks up, the clouds form and the rain starts falling. It seems life stops for a bit. It is in the middle of storms that I feel closest to The Father of my Soul the holder of my thoughts. When it seems all has fallen apart and nothing is left I am glad there is a Creator with a plan. I am glad to see His guildance and follow it for I know my own falls always short. I dont know what the future holds but I know I can learn from it and the past. Yes there is pain, Yes there is Joy, Yes it hurts to live, but without the lows how can we ever compare the highs. Every Problem we encounter comes with a gift we need. We are creatures of wonder and learning. HIS perfect thoughts. Life is too short to be angry or spend it in anger. I hold tight to the truth He allows me and hope to learn so much more! A friend of mine sent me a quote that I want to share with you. . I dont know who wrote it but share it with everyone! "As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So, go ahead, take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back!"-Repost this if you or anyone you love is in need of some amazing encouragement!- Peace Love Unity Respect & Responsibility. . . =)For those of you looking for your partner in this life. You will find them! They are closer then you think. I was married for over 10 years to the one I thought was for me. After she decided I wasnt the one for her, I was blessed again to fall in love with my best friend who I met here. I thought that was forever too, till She passed away from colon cancer in June of 2007. I know God has more adventures for me ahead. I love traveling and do frequently. I may be in NY for new years eve. My brother lives in Colorado, My parents live in Hawaii, I visit Springfield Missouri every chance I get. I have a boy working hard at the adult thing and a girl a work of art in progress and both mean the world to me. If I am to fall in love again it will be with my best friend. Children should always come before my wants or those of any in my life. :) Because of this belief. . I know I have limited my choices in companions. Yes being single gets lonely sometimes but then again Friends always make it better and are always welcome. Its amazing how much trouble friends can get into, let alone what two people with a common goal can accomplish. If your close by say hello. . or ummm if your not close by ummm say hello anyway. I am so glad there is so much support here on this site. . . I have met people here and have memories that I will never ever wish to forget. Georgia your kids are adorable. It was fun to meet you in Las Vegas, Mike those motorcycle excursions were fun, Nevada great memories!, Judy I miss you in my life. Dan we have to go scuba diving!, Noah the ladies just love you!, Angie moments with you are deep reflections YaY! you are getting married?, Amy in Vallejo, we need to do Jamba for smoothies. Nico I will visit you. It will be fun! Some have asked me why I am on this site if I am not actively looking for a wife. The answer: I enjoy the deep conversations and the encouraging thoughts that are abundant on this website. People are genuinely interesting they have a lifetime of experiences to share if you let them. If you got to the end of this and you want to write me then just do it! I currently only can politely say thanks with a halo, but if you leave me a way of getting ahold of you I will write you back. SO NOW Whats stopping you? Go make a friend!