A little rusty doesn't get close. I haven't been on a date since 1984 and have worked outside with a bunch of guys the entire time. I am self-employed, successful and stable in every way. I have been busy raising children and running a business and am just now deciding to try again. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings but I am fit and not to hard to look at, if this doesn't describe you let's don't waste each others time.