Someone like me, that will challenge me so we can grow together. I don't want a pushover. I want someone with their own goals and ambitions, that is independent and strong wiled. However, I don't want someonwho is not open to new ideas, or is not willing to try new things. I DO NOT want someone whoe will fall in love right away or is just after the 'thrill of the chase'. I always believe in starting off as friends and then going from there. I also believe that long term relationships take a lot of hard work. If you are willing to put in the work, so am I.