I am very busy with school, work and my child. I am looking for a friend first and see where the friendship leads. I hate a man to come on too strong, or one that easily falls for everyone he meets. I like a man with a back bone, someone who knows what he wants and isn't affraid to speak on it. I do have a preference. . . . I usually only date black men. . . . If you have a hard time with that. . . Go pray about it!