I am looking to build a friendship that possibly may develop into a relationship. If it does that is great and if it does not. . . . well that is o. k. too. The most important thing for me is that the guy be a commited christian and secondly that he be willing to have a woman with kids. (They are christians and serving the Lord) It would be nice to have some compatibility but mostly I would like a guy who is honest, gentle, kind, and has a simple faith in God.