First, I am a christian and desire to be equally yoked. I cannot be with a man who is not a christian. I married 20 years ago to a man that was not a christian. My husband was verbally abusive, cruel, and adulterous. I have 2 beautiful children (I AM NOT KIDDING - MY ANI AND TORI ARE OUTSTANDING - INSIDE AND OUT!!!!!!) . If my children are the judges: I am beautiful inside and out! I am also obese, but that can be fixed as I have fixed it so many times before with 1/2 marathons and full marathons (can you cut the fatty some slack) .