I am waiting for the one true and honest Godly friend/companion, and role model to establish a relationship with, for life-time of love and dedication, in the ebb and flow of life-both sad and happy-but always striving for happy, content, and Godly. At this point, another broken promise will not do. In this relationship the "shoes" include the children. Although I am confident in my own ability to lead and care for my family, I understand the desired role God established in his creational order. For now I am in no rush. I know the ONE true and living God alone is the one that is my spiritual support, anchor and provider. I have never bought into the "single" women are married to Jesus, thing or to the church or the pastoring staff as a "husband" business; even in the governing autorithy role". (I don't get that-and never will. ) I do, however, believe in Godly roles of leadership and would rather find myself once again as wife and mother instead of the head of household. I will say, I am not an easy match and remarriage, although the goal will be a long process. (not forever) I am direct, often pointed, and smart. [try me- I hope this will be a part of our relationship you will enjoy] I enjoy very much the company of a brillant man. [Well-Educated] You must know how to pray. Prayer that really touches God, breaks bondages and chances you and your family everyday. [Yes-Holy Ghost Prayer] Then, and only then, can you can change those around you. I am often overly serious so I hope you know how to help a very loving and cautious family laugh again. Laughter is something that is a must have. Please bring the laughter. You will be encouraged, loved, admired, cherished and trusted if you are truly the spirit lead man that God brings. I will be first to get to know you. I desire to grow in friendship and love before any contact with the family ever transpires. I would like to know you in the Lord as well. Attend some services together-worship God together- are you cool with that? I want to know that I can be your encourager as well. That we have a plan together and that our goals and visions have not died with age and the failure of broken marriages. Your love will give me the strenght to be all I really am and I will rise up to work at your side and encourage you to finish the dream you have begun. The Lord will encourage us both. You will have the rest of the plan. This profile is simply for ONE man. I don't know who you are - but only some of what you are- You are neither a control freak, nor are you weak minded. Your gentleness if oftness is often not understood- You know the word and you are a leader without being demeaning in style. Most of all you love JESUS. You are committed, Not crazy but convicted, and able to turn away from sin. You have loved God and the things of God for a life-time. Your family shares and values the same things in God. If for some reason some of you feel uncomfotable with this profile-then it's not you- and you are free to click away and be blessed in your search for God's match in your life. . . Thank you for reading my profile.