I enjoy life, and enjoy my work. I am from Southern Illinois, and attend a Baptist church in my community. On Thursday nights and Saturdays, I do Christian Counseling at my church. During the week, I work for a psychiatric hospital. I like spectatorsports, and love long walks or hiking. I love to sing, and have spent many years doing community theatre productions. I enjoy movies, and like to bake. Family is very important to me, as is my faith in God. I love to travel, and enjoyed Maui this summer. I have enjoyed dating some wonderful men, but God has not led me to the right one. While I enjoyed being married, I also enjoy myself in single situations. I do not get my identity from the man I am with. I already know who I am. I have been divorced since 1986, and was married only once, for 27 years. I also have a Ph. D in clinical phycology.