I am a Christian woman, who belongs to the First Baptist Church, I have tried countless times, to no avail, to change the setting on my profile that reads Protestant. I have 2 grown children, both of which are bi-racial. I have a good relationship with my ex-husband and his wife. I have 2 beautiful granddaughters. My daughter is gay and I love her with all my heart. Would love to meet someone that understands what being friends first actually means. The best part about being friends first is that when everything else is gone, you will be spending the rest of your life with your best friend. I have looked at some profiles and must say I am very surprised at the number of men seeking women, in some cases girls, so much younger than they are. I will never understand the mentality that doesn't allow men to equate drama with these young ladies, they seem to go after. Some of you do not even have women up to your own age listed. I thought when I joined a Christian site that would change. I guess even a "good Christian" man is still just a man. If there are any out there who are looking for a woman who isn't young enough to be your daughter, please let me know. I am not, on my best day, going to try and compete with a 20 something year old. Unless the competition is about values, brains and life experience, which if you are looking for someone that young, and are not that young yourself, I highly doubt that the competition has to do with any of the above. I am good hearted with a great sense of humor, which can be quite sarcastic at times, and can be a bit blunt, if you haven't figured that out, lol, I am honest to a fault. Just want someone who can accept me for me and will allow me to accept them for them. That means you can't hide your true self from me until we are into a relationship. Remember, "it is better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for who you are not". That is my motto, let's see if you can handle it!! lol My free trial period is up and until the first of the year I have no extra money to join the site. If you write to me and get no response that is why. As soon as Christmas is over, I have a huge family, and I have the extra cash, I will be joining the site. Take care and GOD BLESS!!!!