Hi, I know of allot of Christians that think because they believe the lamb was slain for their salvation that they are "saved" and can live their lives without Jesus' presence in their hearts. They continue to sin willingly and feel slight guilt as they live for the "world". I was once that way. . . Being a Christian is about living your life fully for Christ, fighting the enemy (removing the dark strongholds in your life and others) , and leading others to follow you. I believe that you cannot have a successful and healthy relationship with anyone unless you can put God above all.